We all dream about the prince on a white horse and cry in the pillow when it’s Valentine’s and sadly we must admit that there is no one to spend it with.
You may already have your man. How long you’ve been together? 2, 7 or maybe 15 years? Actually, it doesn’t matter. You can always feel extremely happy or completely lonely. Not mentioning even about ambivalent attitudes though…
It usually starts the same. He’s very charming and so passionate in bed! Seems like he is reading your minds… Gently kisses your neck and always when he gets closer you can feel the that is wearing your favourite perfume. You put on your best black lace lingerie, laugh loud at his jokes and nervously play with your hair when he looks straight into your eyes. He takes you out for romantic dinners, introduces you his friends and throws red roses in front of your door in the middle of the night. You start to trust him talking hours about your dreams and fears. He promises to show you the world and always protect you. And you’re going to believe him.
But, the real life is not a romantic comedy. Well, at least not all of the time.
Sipping wine, laying on the floor eating fresh bruschettas, watching the stars and having an amazing sex is easy with almost everyone. But the question is on how many of them can you really relay on? With how many can you be absolutely sure that if something happens they will be the first ones willing (and able) to help? How many give you this sense of security which we women so badly need? You can be successful, you can be an entrepreneuer, mother of 4, adventurer or traveler. You can be extremelay brave and independent, but in the end of the day you just want him to grab his arms around and let you know that he is there and he will take care of you.
Being with someone means that since now you confront the whole brutal world together. Now you have someone who will always stand next to you and fight for you because you’re worth it. Your warrior, your lover and your best friend.
A good relationship make us grow. Not by taking the advantage of the partner. It makes us grow together. Improving each others weak sides and complementing missing elements. Impressing each other and motivating to be the best version of ourself. It works pretty well if both sides follow the same game.
Good relationship doesn’t has to be the perfect match. In fact, it isn’t, usually. You can be a strong 5 and he can be even this god damn 10. You both can have different dreams and future plans, but as long as you find some common vibes – it will work out. It will work out as long as you will work on it every single day. Help with daily little things. Take care. Surprise. Desire. Enjoy the best moments of the life together and cross through the storms holding hands – together.
Spend today with someone you love and show that you really care. Not only today, but e v e r y d a y.
Happy Valentine’s <3